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I’ve been a registered nurse for 18 years. 4 years ago My wife and I decided to make a change. Felt like we weren’t happy with the direction we were going. Now i just can't find a job I feel like i fit into. Anyone else ever do this or have any recommendations for me?
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To me money don't matter and it does not buy happiness. Find something that makes you happy and something you love doing of course you might have to make some sacrifices but maybe not. Also if your not happy its hard to make anyone else happy. If its RN you want to get back into and if thats what you haven't been doing and something you want and love doing. You should def sit down with your wife and speak to her about it.
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You could try going to a therapist for a few different reasons:
Please hear me out……
1. You may have a slight case of depression that's preventing you from enjoying things you otherwise might.
2. The two of you could explore different aptitudes you may have that also complement things you enjoy.
3. He/She probably has a battery of tests to give you that would help you select a career more suited to you and in-line with the things discussed in #2.
4. He/She can help you to find new ways to view the world and to re-frame your thoughts so you see the world and/or your job and consider them in a more positive light—which would make you happier overall.
Perhaps those recommendations sound a bit far-fetched, but they work for a lot of folks.
Good Luck!
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Sir, I’m not trying to demean you but I think you should know at this stage of your life that if work was fun they would call it fun and not work. I’m retired and can honestly state that in my 40 years of working a total of about 4 year were good, not fun but satisfying and rewarding. The remainder of the time I found out who signed my checks and did what that individual told me to do. I used my vacation time and my weekend and holidays to be happy.
I hear about people who just LOVE their job but I haven't met more than one or two of them. I honestly think it is a myth. If you can get one you love then more power to you but I honestly think the odds are really against it happening.
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First of all money doesn't make up for unhappiness. There are plenty of millionaires that don't like their job still although they make so much money. Interesting that you're a RN though. Do you not like taking care of people? Or have you not hit the mark on what you're likes and dislikes are. You're prabably not happy about you're job because of stress ect. I suggest reading these books
The Monk Who Sold His Ferrari.
You Can Win
Who moved my cheese
They're all self help books that might help you. Good luck in finding happiness!
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Sorry to disappoint you but I heard somewhere that 95% of people are not happy at their jobs. So your ideal bet would be to find a job that just pays really well. Sometimes the money makes up for the unhappiness. Good luck and sorry!
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